As you read this blog or listen to the podcast, aspects of your own knowing will awaken. Your birthright and knowing about motherhood will return to you, perhaps in little bits here and there or perhaps in big waves that require you to lie down, receive and rest.
There is nothing in my website of magic. It simply is the way it is and has always been. You in your bones will know what parts are for you and you will drink them in, and if there are parts that are not for you, they will simply pass by, roll off you like water rolling off a duck’s back.
If you are like most women, as you embark on the journey to motherhood you will be tested countless ways. This process can be simple, smooth and joyful, or it can knock the wind out of you and bring you to your knees. One experience is not better or more divine than the next. Yours is right for you.
Motherhood is one of those universal experiences that we as women experience in such a specific and personal way, it cannot be compared to anyone else’s journey. Yet here I hope to create a refuge for you as a partner on your journey, so you will not feel alone.
You will have your connection to your knowing so that when the world of medicine is telling you what is possible for you or what you must do, when your family is expressing concern, kindness, fear or projection you will remember your own Truth.
When the larger culture, social media and every thought form out there that may tempt you into thinking you don’t know what is best for your own body and your own child, you will remember to come home to your heart, to your Soul and Greater Consciousness, to your Earth.
You will come home to your Self and your knowing. From there you will connect with your husband or partner if you are co-creating your family with another. You will connect with your child, and you will navigate this journey on your own terms.
With grace, you will receive and remember that everyone expressing their opinion is doing their best to be helpful. You’ll breathe, smile and say thanks even when they push, unwelcome into your space while simply letting their unhelpful contribution pass by.
You will receive the advice, resources and comments that feel right to you, and know they are yours—in part or as a whole—and with these you will make informed choices. You will be drawn to the information and resources, the caregivers and the friends and classes that are aligned with what is highest and best for you, your child, your husband and any other children you may have.
You trust yourself and your process.
It is with purity of heart that I offer these resources to you in hopes they provide clarity in times of darkness or confusion, and act as a roadmap when nothing else makes sense. Everything on this website has the potential to awaken and attune you to your own knowing and to connect you solidly with your child.
Please remember that I am human too and give from my heart to yours some truths of which I am a steward. Not everything I offer may be for you. Please hungrily take what resonates and leave the rest. Know that I am with you, and that you can’t mess this up. Every choice you make will weave together in your most excellent adventure as you co-create your family.
Welcome.
With love,
Alaya
