Posts Tagged ‘self-awareness’

Did you know that if your adrenals are tired during pregnancy, that your baby’s adrenals will support you both during your third trimester? This will deplete your baby and have negative health implications for your precious child. Please make sure you are resourced and supported so that your adrenals are functioning well–for your health and pleasure as well as for baby’s.

Pregnancy is quite a stressor for many women. A common occurrence, however, is the woman who, upon reaching her third trimester of pregnancy, says that she all of a sudden “feels better than I have felt in years.” This is often the case when the first two trimesters were particularly difficult. The fetus’s adrenal glands mature to the point of being able to produce hormones at about the beginning of the third trimester.

If the mother is in the exhaustion stage of the GAS (adrenal function), it is not uncommon for the baby’s adrenals to try to make enough adrenal hormones for both the baby and the mother. The mother feels great. The baby’s adrenals are really supporting the mother’s adrenals. But the baby’s adrenal glands are being stressed before it is even born!

The results are doubly negative. The baby is born in a state of adrenal depletion and often exhibits symptoms of hypoadrenia. These symptoms may be varied, but two of the more common symptoms are allergies and recurrent infections. During chronic stress states, the thymus and other lymphatic structures atrophy, lowering the capabilities of the body’s immune mechanisms.

http://tuberose.com/Adrenal_Glands.html

You may already have caught this wave–right brainers rule! I have been doing a LOT of brain integration work with my own brain over the last year. I had a series of brain/head injuries in my 20’s that caused some problems in my ability to sequence. And looking back, I think it also tipped me to right brain mode whereas prior to the accidents, I had predominantly been a left brain gal. In college I studied biochem, developmental biology including genetics, mind-body biology and psychology, as well as theology and psych and general bio. I have been so right brain focused in the last 10 years I can barely do math at a restaurant to calculate the tip, and I used to be a math whiz! I would say in both cases I was imbalanced–the first 20 years of my life too much left brain/masculine and the next 15-20 too much right brain/feminine.

So over the last year I started doing energy work to integrate, heal and regain more whole-mind functionality. It’s really made a difference in my ability to sequence and also has made a difference in my ability to navigate the balance of feminine/masculine associated ways of being/doing in my life and business. You probably guessed my business is driven by inspiration and spirit primarily, and I have had a lot of work to do to catch up on the business side of things. I am doing my best to create a business structure that is pleasurable for me and that serves you well, and am still learning.

I’ve noticed that many of the men who’ve come to me in particular receive some sort of brain integration session. We at least start with that in many cases. These men are often moving from primarily left-brain, analytical, scientific method type of thinking into embracing more of their allowing, being, and intuition aspects. It’s a shift that is required often in order for them to get from point A (where they are) to point B (where they desire to go). This is a trend I’m quite sure will continue as we move into fluid time and collaborative being.

While doing this brain integration work on myself, I was drawn to read two books in particular that I wish to share with you. I had more resonance with Jill Bolte Taylor’s book My Stroke of Insight: A Brain Scientist’s Personal Journey, but the Dan Pink book A Whole New Mind: Why Right-Brainers Will Rule the Future is great too. I loved Jill’s because it was very scientific and also very feminine. She basically had a stroke and because she is a neuroscientist, was able to recognize what was happening to her and articulated it. It’s absolutely fascinating.

While I was reading, I realized that a lot of the right-brained experiences she was describing were my normal mode of being. And I’m suspecting these kids coming in to have a bit of a different brain balance than we did or still do–or at least will be curious to watch this unfold with you and your kids. Let me know, OK?

I am noticing in my clients a response to the presence of a child, in particular one of these very high vibrating children, as a stir of emotions in themselves and in particular within their relationship and partner. If you have traveled to foreign countries, you know what happens if you plug your hair dryer into the electrical socket. At best it doesn’t work. At worst it fries your hair dryer or blows a circuit in the system.

Why is this? It’s because the electrical flow of the two systems don’t match. They can’t communicate. Unless you bring your adaptor, you can not connect the two different streams in a way that works for either side–the dryer or the circuitry in your hotel. This is sort of what happens when you start interacting with a being that vibrates at a very different level than you do, or it is what CAN happen. Either there is simply no connection at all, both sides cannot hear one another, OR one or both sides of the equation get fried.

I see this often in my work, helping people to connect and communicate with their kids prior to conception. It’s very similar from my work over the years helping people to connect with their spirit guides, angels or other beings of light here to assist humanity. I also see this when there is a lot of love present in a relationship, when someone truly begins to trust another, the love that exists between them starts flooding them and stirs up, roto-roots out some patterns that are not a match for love. Old stuff comes up to be healed, released, to move out of the system when there is something higher available, something that resonates at a higher frequency.

This is what I am witnessing in the lives of those who are connecting with these vibrational children.  They are given an opportunity to find their center, to clear old patterns they no longer need and to find their strength inside of them in new ways. They are having the opportunity to embody more of their own soul’s light, purpose, and to liberate themselves from patterns handed down from earlier generations. It’s such a gift these children bring, simply by their being. They are pure, they are advanced, and their vibration is very high.

There is a lot more to say on this topic, but I wanted to start with this acknowledgment. If you are experiencing emotional upset, the resurgence of old patterns, fighting with your partner when you thought you were through with all of that, but now that you are considering having a child, or are already pregnant, or the baby is here and suddenly you find yourself disconnected from your partner or short circuiting each other, don’t take it as a sign you aren’t right for each other or that something is really wrong with your relationship. It may be that you are getting ready to go to a new level together.

I can help you settle into the new energy, get centered, and re-set your own vibrational level if you need help with that. I can help build a bridge with and for you to connect with your child and this powerful energy he or she offers. I can help you harmonize with your partner, help your family system adapt to the incoming light. It is a gift and an opportunity for you, even if it doesn’t feel like it. Remember to breathe. Telepath to your partner (you can just think it to yourself when you think of it) “I love you. You are a great husband (wife). You are/will be a great dad (mom). “